Dear Sarah - What is the best option at MacDonalds?

Years ago when I was staying with family friends in Canada, once a week one set of grandparents would come over and take their two young children out for lunch. Every week the grandparents would arrive and ask "Where do you want to go today?" and every week the children would yell out 'MacDonalds".

Most of us, or at least many of us, will for one reason or another end up in a fast food burger place. It may not have been our preferred choice, or maybe it was. But what ever the reason there may come a time when you need to know which is going to do the least damage to your figure.

I was asked this question a few days ago because the person in question has a daughter who is at an age when hanging out with friends in senior school often means hanging out in MacDonald's. This person wanted to know the better options for the teenage daughter because this group are in there quite a lot. One burger meal a month isn't a problem but several a week really could become a problem, especially if chips and drinks are also involved.

When eating out in fast food places the main tips are to avoid as much sugar as possible which usually means avoiding most sauces, all relishes and nearly all the drinks. It also means not having the additional sides or dessert, or at least avoiding these most of the time.

With reference to any fast food burger place the best option is usually a grilled chicken burger with lots of salad, no relish, a little mayo on a wholemeal bun. There are also chicken salads and again avoid the dressing unless it is only oil and vinegar. If beef is preferred then go for a burger that has lots of salad and no relish or sauce (or very little) or a burger that has a double patty because the protein will help to fill you up quicker and for longer. The buns contain sugar which keeps people hungry. There is a longish chemical reason for this which I am happy to explain another day. The best options are the breakfast muffins which have the muffin instead of the bun, with egg and bacon and very little sauce.

The best drink is water and if that is too daggy or boring then tea and coffee are also good options because it is better to have 1 spoonful of sugar in either than the 10 teaspoonfuls in a regular can of soft drink. The milkshakes are also very high in sugar. If the only 'cool' option is a soft drink than chose a diet soft drink.

If you have any questions you would like to ask regarding fast food or any other matter related to weight management and life generally after 40 please put them in the comment box below or email me at sarah@beautifullybalanced.com.au

love
Sarah

Could you be over-exercising?

How can this be fair? You exercise like an Olympian athlete nearly every day of the week, and eat so carefully that you have almost no fat or sugar (or taste) and yet the scales and your clothes tell you that not only are you not loosing weight, you are gaining weight.

Your first instinct may be to do even more exercise and eat even less however this will make the situation worse. What is going on? How does this work?

Amazingly enough it is caused by over-training and eating too little. Before you leap for joy and race out to buy all your favourite food that you have been denying yourself for months, and start to spend every night enjoying sitting on the sofa catching up with all your favourite shows there is a little more to it than doing nothing and eating everything.

Over training is not the same as a weight plateau and it is best to get professional advice before deciding that it is due to over training or something else, such as oestrogen dominance. Even better is to avoid getting to that point altogether.

When we train we gain muscle and muscle needs more energy than fat. It also needs good fatty acids (thinking olive oil and avocados) to help maintain and build muscle. Training whilst on a low fat diet is not sustainable. People often assume that we burn fat first but we actually burn muscle first if we don't eat because it is easier for our bodies to break down and utilise. Then we become a TOFE: thin on the outside and fat on the inside. We need fuel to build muscles which in turn will rev up our metabolism and eventually burn off fat. Fat loss is due to a slow burn.

We also need rest so that our muscles can recover. When we don't have rest days or rest certain muscle groups it is the equivalent of burning the candle at both ends. How energised do you feel after a week of late nights and early starts?

If you aren't sure how much you should work out, and what you should be eating then get some professional help. This can include lots of free resources on the Internet and professional help from people who have trained in particular fields.

When you work hard you want results, so make sure you are getting the results you deserve for all that effort.

love
Sarah

Dear Sarah - Is there really a banana diet?

The simple answer is 'Yes'. There really is a banana diet. It started in Japan and was originally created by a woman to help her husband loose weight. He lost 17 kilos and put the diet on one of Japan's largest social networks. It became a best selling book with over 730,000 copies being sold. It also increased the sales of bananas by 70%.

There are rules to this diet and they are beautifully simple. You must eat a banana for breakfast which must be uncooked and on its own, with a glass of water. It can't be added to yoghurt, muesli or anything else. If one is not enough you can eat more bananas until you feel satisfied but like any healthy eating plan you do not keep eating until you are full as that is over-eating.

You can eat what you like for lunch and dinner but no deserts at either, and you can have any savoury food you like at both. You can snack before 3pm and these snacks must be either any other kind of fruit or a small piece of chocolate. No snacks after 3pm and nothing at all to eat after 8pm, including the evening meal.

Filtered water is the only recommended drink with drinks containing caffeine or sugar being avoided if possible.

How does this help someone loose weight? That was my first question. There are a couple of theories:

• Bananas are packed with enzymes that boost digestion that reduce the time the intestines need to work to digest food. The result is a metabolism that aids weight loss.
• Bananas are a rich source of resistant starch, which is thought to leave you feeling satisfied and therefore less inclined to overeat at meal times as well as increasing the body's fat-burning capacity. 

And that really is all there is to it. I have never tried it and I would love to hear from someone who has. If you have or know anyone who has please write about it in the comment box below. I would love to know if it works.

love
Sarah

Could it be Estrogen Dominance?

You have dieted, gone without chocolate, biscuits and nearly killed yourself at the gym. You step on the scales only to find that you have either lost less than a kilo or even worse: you have stayed the same.

How is this possible? It certainly doesn't seem fair.

Let's be very clear here. This is not because you didn't do enough or lacked Will Power or all the other things that you fretted about. If you are over the age of 40 then it is far more likely to be something else. Something far more common and yet so few women seem to know about it. What is this phenomenon?

Estrogen Dominance, which is a very common issue for women during their perimenopause.

During our perimenopause our body starts to produce less of certain hormones, and two of these hormones are estrogen and progesterone. Many women are aware that they may not be producing as much estrogen but may not realise that they are producing even less progesterone.

Progesterone is produced in the second half of the cycle and as we go through the perimenopause we produce even less progesterone than estrogen because of the way the cycle occurs. We start to ovulate infrequently even though we are still having periods. We also have more erratic cycles and our periods could be light for several months and then really heavy. This is because of our fluctuating hormones as they decrease.

The signs and symptoms that you could be estrogen dominate are many and varied and you should always visit your health practitioner to rule out any other possibilities. If you are experiencing any or a combination of  the following as new symptoms or previous symptoms that have become worse then please see your health practitioner:

• ageing process has accelerated
• breast tenderness
• depression
• fat gain round the tummy, hips and bottom
• fatigue (as opposed to tiredness)
• fuzzy thinking
• headaches
• irritability
• memory loss
• lower libido
• increased PMS
• water retention and bloating

The good news is that estrogen dominance can be managed with a change in diet and various other techniques and changes. 

Good management of the signs and symptoms of estrogen dominance and other aspects of the perimenopause can help you to continue to enjoy a full and fun-filled life.

love
Sarah

Dear Sarah - Why can't I remember anything?

A few weeks ago I was running a workshop on something totally unrelated to memory and a woman asked me if it was possible that she had early dementia. She went on to say that she was struggling to remember even the most mundane daily things in life, like where she put her car keys, what time she needed to meet a friend and what she had decided to cook for dinner. She knew that I had a Master's degree in Aged Services and knew quite a bit about dementia so thought she would ask while she had the opportunity.

Pretty soon several other women in the group were sharing similar stories. Whilst there may be a very slim chance that one of them may be developing early onset dementia, when I asked them to share some of their other signs and symptoms it became apparent very quickly that what they all had in common were just some of the things we can expect with perimenopause.

I started to talk about perimenopause and most of them hadn't heard about it and this is also very common. We all know about the menopause but most women don't know about the decade or so leading up to it and therefore they don't associate their wide range of signs and symptoms with it.

'Brain fog' or 'fuzzy thinking' is just one of the many signs and symptoms of perimenopause. The good news is that you can do something about it. Here are three things that you can do, today and this week, to enjoy clearer thinking.

• Get more quality sleep. If you go to bed late and get up early, or spend all night tossing and turning trying to sort out problems or have difficulty getting to sleep because you were working on your laptop, checking out facebook or watching television until you tried to sleep then you will have poor quality sleep. Make it a rule to have no screen time for at least 30 minutes before bed, and read when you get into bed before going to sleep. Make sure that your room is quiet, dark and aired and that your bed is comfortable with layers that you can throw off if you get hot (or add if you get cold). This lets our body restore and regenerate for each new day.
• Have a look at your diet and work out how many processed foods and sugar-laden foods you eat every day. Consider reducing these or even cutting some out (you can enjoy them now and then). Too much caffeine can have a negative effect on memory and thinking, as can too much sugar. Drinking more water will also help.
• Relax more often and reduce your stress where possible. It can be difficult to both relax and to find ways to reduce stress but it can be achieved even if done slowly over time. Write down all the things you are feeling stressed about and work out what you can do for each item. It may involve the advice and help of others, such as delegating domestic tasks, getting professional advice on financial matters and taking action for other issues. Choose three ways that you love to relax and incorporate them into your day and week. You will need to write them in your diary or they may never take place. A 20 minute walk can do wonders for stress and for your health, book a coffee meet up with a friend, get your nails done, read a book that has been on your list for months, stroke the dog/cat, have a relaxing bath, go for a swim or do something creative. Watching television does not count!

For more information on any of the above you can email me at sarah@beautifullybalanced.com.au or write in the comment box below.


Enjoy clearer thinking

love
Sarah

Weight management Wednesday - The difference could be water

We all know that we should drink more water but we often don't quite get around to it. Maybe you don't like the taste, find it a bit of a pain to take a bottle everywhere, or maybe you are concerned that it will increase your water retention on 'those' days each month.

What if you knew that it could help you loose a few kilos and help you maintain your goal weight?
What if you knew that it could help you look younger?
What if you knew that it could to give you more energy?

Well it can. Water is the solvent for all body processes. Our bodies need water for everything. If you have ever had dry eyes, been really thirsty or a high fever you will remember how important water can be in that moment. One of the problems can be that we only remember how vital water is when we have an experience that reminds us. The rest of the time we forget.

Rather than causing weight gain (unless you have been informed by a medical practitioner to restrict your water intake for medical reasons) water can actually assist weight loss. 

If you would like to have more energy, look younger and loose a few kilos then start drinking more water. A few ways to do this are:

• Start slowly to allow your body to get used to more water and also for you to build up the habits of drinking more water
• Build up to approximately 2 litres a day or 1 litre for every 22ks
• Find a water that you like such as filtered water, a particular bottled water, hot with a slice of lemon or with a wedge of cucumber and some mint leaves (no flavoured water)
• For every cup of coffee and/or tea drink an additional glass of water
• Avoid all juices, squashes and 'power' drinks because they contain lots of sugar or artificial sugar (which is not very good for you and keeps your taste buds wanting sweet drinks)
• If you are currently consuming several sweet drinks a day then cut down and finally stop if you find this easier that going 'cold turkey'
• Buy a drinks container that you really like so that you don't mind taking it with you and make sure that you wash it out every day

Enjoy the results of keeping hydrated

love
Sarah

Dear Sarah - your questions answered

Last week I had a new client whose first question before signing up was "Will I still be able to enjoy a glass of wine?" Absolutely. It is really important to create an individualised health eating weight loss (and then weight management) life changing style that will be sustainable for the rest of your life. If you want a glass of wine several nights a week then your individualised new life style will need to include this requirement.

When we tell ourselves that we will have to go without something our unconscious brain, which is about 90 - 95% of our brain, goes into survival mode. Despite being surrounded by food our brain believes that we are entering into a period of famine. It then makes the necessary survival strategies so that you make it through the famine. It does this by slowing down our metabolism so that we conserve our fat stores, and it also converts more eaten food into fat because it knows that there is a famine so it makes the most of what it can when it can. What does this mean for you when you give up eating your favourite food? It means that whilst you may be doing without something that brings you satisfaction all the other food you are eating is helping you to gain weight. More than this, after the age of 40 eating less causes weight gain in the long-term.

What is the answer? To have an eating plan that includes your favourite food/s so that your body doesn't go into survival mode. This does not mean that you can continue to eat large portions of all your favourite foods every day and it does mean that you can include them in your weekly eating plan in small amounts.

The outcome of this is that you will actually enjoy these foods even more than you used to because they aren't taken for granted, so you savour every mouthful without experiencing guilt, just pleasure. The pleasure tells your brain that you aren't in the middle of a famine and that there is plentiful amounts of food so it switches off the famine switch.

As for that glass of wine, it is best if it is a red wine or a dry white wine rather than a sweet white wine. Red wine has been shown to have some health properties providing it is only one or two glasses a few nights a week and the sugar in it has been converted during the wine making process so that it is no longer fructose. If you prefer a spirit then have it with soda water instead of a mixer which will have sugar or sweetener in it. Savour and enjoy each mouthful and enjoy the entire experience.

Please post your weight loss/management questions in the comment box below.

love
Sarah

7 reasons to eat more fibre

When I was a young girl we were all told to eat roughage. Now we are told to eat more fibre. Of course roughage and fibre are one and the same but as with so many words, the name of something changes or it changes its meaning. Take the word 'sick' which to me means that you are unwell but to an entire generation of younger people the word 'sick' means something that is trendy and 'cool'.

Why do health experts tell us to eat more fibre? We are probably all aware of its benefits in reducing our risk of bowel cancer but did you know that it has many other benefits as well? In addition to staving off bowel cancer here are 7 other reasons that you might want to add some more fruit, vegetables and whole grains to your daily diet:

1. It helps to reduce the bad cholesterol in your body. Cholesterol is necessary and we want to have high levels of the good variety and a lot less of the bad variety which can cause heart disease. 
2. It helps with balancing our blood sugar levels. When we eat anything that our body converts into glucose we can get high spikes which are not good for us. Eating fibre helps to prevent (or reduce if you eat a lot of sugar) these high spikes and allows us to use our sugar more slowly.
3. It helps with weight maintenance and can also help with weight reduction. It does this in several ways that involve several processes which I will describe another day.
4. It helps reduce the symptoms of perimenopause and may also help with oestrogen dominance  which can also be an issue in perimenopause. Again this is lots of science for another day.
5. It helps you to feel fuller for longer and you can eat smaller meals because the fibre helps you to feel fuller sooner. All this is also good for weight maintenance.
6. In addition to helping with bowel cancer a diet high in fibre has been shown to reduce the risks of developing other cancers.
7. It can help improve your skin and reduce breakouts. This is because certain types of fibre grab onto yeasts and fungus which helps to move them through the system rather than be excreted through the skin.

So as we can see having more fibre will help us look and feel better.

Enjoy some fresh fruit and veges today

love
Sarah

Happy Monday: A Bit of News, Cultivating High Self-Esteem, and Cute Robot Spiders!

Before we jump into this article, a couple of updates-
Firstly, hi! I'm Kandice, I'll be writing today's post and probably a few others in the future. Sarah is snowed under working on a myriad of projects right now, including her new blog  A Poet In Prose , so I'm helping out a bit over here. Second announcement, part of my helping out around here includes some tidying up, so look forward to some style changes and an updated look soon! 

Now that that's out of the way, Happy Monday! Today I wanted to share a few tips for boosting your self-esteem, as we all have days when we don't feel like the superstar we really are.

1. "Comparison is the thief of joy."

Stop comparing yourself to other people, instead compare yourself to yourself. Turn a blind eye to those who appear to be better off, and you'll be happier in the long run.

2. "Practice random kindness and simple acts of beauty"

The best high for your soul is giving. Shove yourself out of that bubble of self-obsession, and shift your focus to others for a bit. Help out at a homeless shelter, help a senior citizen cross the street, chuck a couple dollars into a donation jar. It doesn't have to be huge, but enough that you truly feel like you did something good.

 3. "When you stumble, be your own best friend."

How would your best friend or loving parent treat you when you trip up or make a mistake? Treat yourself with that same kindness, you deserve that kindness as much as anyone else.

 4. "Leave Perfectionism Behind."

Perfection is unattainable, and that is fact. Obsessing over minute flaws is a fantastic waste of time. Embrace the imperfections, for that is what makes you human!

 5. "Keep in mind why your self esteem is so important."

"When you like yourself more, when your opinion of yourself goes up, then you’ll stop trying so eagerly to get validation and attention from other people."

Spend some time on you this week. Try these out and let us know what you think of them, or even add your own! If you'd like a more eloquent, detailed version of these tips, please read Henrik Edberg's article on the Five Habits of High Self-Esteem. Lastly I wanted to leave you all with this adorable 3D Printed Spider doing a little jig. A bit science, a bit spooky, a lot of cute!!! Have an amazing Monday everyone!

xoxo,
      Kandice